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If your child is old enough to have a mobile, you probably appreciate the fact that they can contact you and you can contact them at any time. But keeping on top of the costs is something lots of parents worry about.
It’s important that you help your child to understand and stay in control of the costs, even if they don’t physically hand over money for the handset and every call, text or other service they use.
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The first decision is how much to spend on a mobile for your son or daughter – this depends largely on their age and maturity and what they need a mobile for, but it’s likely that they will have strong views on which mobile they want.
It’s worth encouraging them to choose a handset that you also feel comfortable with, so ask yourself: Do you want them just to have a mobile for emergencies or are you happy for them to call and text their friends too? Are you comfortable with them having a camera or internet access on their mobile? Will you pay their bills or will you expect them to cover the costs?
Once you’ve chosen a handset you all agree on, you need to choose the right payment option: ‘Pay monthly’ or ‘Pay As You Go’.
‘Pay monthly’ customers must be over 18 and usually sign up to a 12-month or 18-month contract. You can set up a pay monthly mobile contract for your child so that you receive an itemised bill once a month on which premium rate services, like downloads, will be listed as extras and you can also check their bills online.
With ‘Pay As You Go’, your child will pay for calls in advance via TopUp vouchers that cost, for example, £10 or £20. You or they can buy vouchers in supermarkets and newsagents or top up online or at bank cash points.
The advantage of ‘Pay As You Go’ TopUps is that they can help your child to manage their spending (at the end of every call they’ll see their remaining balance on their mobile screen so they’re more aware of how much they’re spending on their mobile).
Some parents use TopUps like pocket money – once the credit has gone, it’s gone, and their children have to wait until they can afford to top up again before they can use their mobile.
There are downsides with ‘Pay As You Go’, however, including the fact that you don’t receive an itemised bill so you can’t see who your son or daughter is calling or if they’re downloading mobile content.
Before you get your child a mobile, it’s also worth discussing what calls, texts and other services might cost them.
It’s particularly important to discuss premium rate services (sometimes called phone-paid services) as they cost more than the standard call rates on mobiles and landlines. They are products or services, such as ringtone and game downloads, TV voting lines, news alerts and competitions, that are charged directly to the mobile account that uses them.
UK consumers spent nearly £1 billion on phone-paid services in 2008 and they’re very popular with young people. According to Phonebrain, nearly three quarters (74%) of 13 to 15 year olds in the UK have bought and downloaded a mobile ringtone, for example
In the UK, premium rate numbers usually begin with 090 and premium rate text services are usually “shortcodes” of 4 or 5 digits long (eg text ‘VOTE’ to 11111). Adult voice services usually begin with 0908 or 0909 and adult text services can often be recognised by a 69 or 89 prefix.
PhonepayPlus, the UK regulator for premium rate services, notes that these kind of services can cost between 10p and £1.50 per minute/call/text (plus any network charges). If the product your child buys costs more than £1.50, they’ll be charged through a number of text messages (eg for a £3 ringtone, they’ll be charged for two text messages costing £1.50 each).
In the UK, PhonepayPlus offers a Number Checker on its website so that mobile users can check who runs a particular phone-paid service and how much it will cost.
Finally, if young people take their mobile on holiday, parents should make sure they understand the potential roaming charges for calls, texts and data. Data charges in Europe have been capped at 50 Euros under EU roaming rules but if they’re travelling further afield, they could run up large bills without realising.
When you’re choosing a mobile for your child:
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What you need to know to get started
Technology is part of your child's life before they start primary school. They're probably using the computer, the internet and interactive TV for fun - watching programmes on the CBeebies channel and website or taking part in the Club Penguin chat rooms...but they still need adult guidance and supervision.
If you have 8-11 year old children, your house is probably full of technology - PlayStation, Nintendo, iPod...the list goes on. In fact, research shows that 8-11 year olds in the UK have an average of four media devices in their bedroom.
This is a crucial age for young people to embrace new technologies and develop their ICT skills both at home and at school...and it's a crucial time for you to take control when they start exploring the digital world as well as the real world.
They're at secondary school and growing up fast. It's a time of change and their digital world might seem as important as the real world to them. They might spend their evenings on Bebo, Facebook or MySpace ; watching videos on YouTube and uploading their own for others to watch; or doing research for their homework.
You want to encourage their technology and social skills, of course, so it's useful to understand what they're doing with technology and to get involved with it.
Once your children are teenagers, it might be tempting to think that they're tech-savvy and dealing with everything the virtual world can throw at them. You probably watch in awe as they switch from chatting with friends on Facebook to updating their Twitter profile; playing against someone on the other side of the world on their games console to downloading music on their mobile.
It's all great fun but, as they get older, the things you need to help them to cope with in their digital world are ever more challenging. Far from leaving them to it, you really need to keep communicating with them.
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